Aaron J

Nonviolent Communication for Self Defense?!?

By: ashshaffer August 22, 2019August 21, 2019

Self DefenseCommunication, Self Defense, self protectionLeave a Comment

So whether you are trying to connect with your significant other, communicate tasks or plans to co-workers, or properly setting boundaries against a possible threat, clarity is key.

Know You Don’t Know Everything

By: ashshaffer August 15, 2019

Uncategorizedcoaching, growth, Self Image, Self ImprovementLeave a Comment

…the ones that will see continued success over the longest periods of time and reach the highest potential, are the ones that know they don’t know everything…

Guns Don’t Keep You Safe

By: ashshaffer August 8, 2019

Self DefenseDefensive Handgun, personal protection, Self Defense, training mattersLeave a Comment

There is no tool in this world that can guarantee safety. Your potential to survive a violent encounter is directly correlated to the amount of time you spend training.

When Do You Take Time to Learn?

By: ashshaffer July 31, 2019

Leadershipcontinued education, learning, Self ImprovementLeave a Comment

You’re in control of your future. Act accordingly.

You’ve Changed

By: ashshaffer July 25, 2019July 24, 2019

Uncategorizedchange, coaching, growth, Leadership, life goalsLeave a Comment

I posted an image earlier this week to the Instagram page for The Kamiwaza Podcast that had a caterpillar and a butterfly drinking coffee at a table. The caterpillar tells the butterfly “You’ve changed” The butterfly responds “We’re supposed to.” #micdrop In life, we’re supposed to adapt, and change, and move on to new things.…

No One Respects Free

By: ashshaffer July 18, 2019July 16, 2019

UncategorizedbusinessLeave a Comment

Everybody loves free stuff. I mean, what is better than receiving something in return for nothing? The problem is, more often than not, we don’t really respect free. There’s no skin in the game so why would we? If you’re not invested, emotionally or financially, there’s no real reason to be committed or broken by…

Speak Softly but Carry a Big Stick

By: ashshaffer July 11, 2019July 8, 2019

Leadership, Self DefenseLeadership, Self Defense, Self Image, StereotypesLeave a Comment

That said, in my experience, the most impactful people are the ones that can be tough when needed, but they know that the real magic comes in knowing how to talk with people, how to empathize, to relate. How to truly connect with people to deliver their message.

Fired

By: ashshaffer July 4, 2019August 4, 2019

Uncategorizedaccountability, active shooter, Leadership, workplace safetyLeave a Comment

Either way, taking time to get to know the people you surround yourself with, whether they are good, bad, or any variable in between, can be an important piece of life that you’re missing.

You Cannot Care About Everything

By: ashshaffer June 27, 2019June 24, 2019

book, Leadershipfocus, kamiwaza book club, Leadership, lifestyle, the subtle art of not giving a fuckLeave a Comment

So, stop giving a Fuck about everything and start focusing your efforts on the things that matter to you, and don’t feel bad about that.

Tip of the Spear

By: ashshaffer June 20, 2019June 18, 2019

UncategorizedDefensive Handgun, Handgun, Making and Impact, Target AudienceLeave a Comment

So we just completed week two of a Six Week Defensive Handgun Class I put together to introduce good shooting habits and concealed carry concepts to shooters of all ability levels. I have been thinking about doing this course for a very long time, ever since my friend Todd Fossey kind of opened my eyes…

Aaron J

A (Respectful) Breakdown of the Gracie Breakdown: Active Shooter

Three Cheers For Growth!

Head Position in the Clinch

There’s No “Long Game” In Self Defense

It Takes a Village… So Don’t Be A Dick

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